The Let Them Theory
A life-changing tool millions of people can’t stop talking about.
The Let Them Theory is a step-by-step guide on how to stop letting other people's opinions, drama, and judgment impact your life. Two simple words, Let Them, will set you free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. It’s time to build a life where you come first—your dreams, your goals, your happiness.


What's The Let Them Theory?
What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?
If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words – Let Them – will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.
Episodes and Clips about the Let Them Theory
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Episode #70
The “Let Them Theory” : A Life-Changing Mindset Hack That 15 Million People Can’t Stop Talking About
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Episode #119
6 Ways to Use My “Let Them” Theory to Improve Any Relationship
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Episode #246
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory
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Clip from Episode #122
Let Them Theory in Family Conflict
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Clip from Episode #249
Reclaim Your Power With The Let Them Theory

"It's everything I was trying to say for 25 years... one of the best self-help books I've ever read."
— Oprah Winfrey
Exclusive Bonus Chapters for The Let Them Theory
Leadership Guide: Co-authored by Mel Robbins, and business coach, David Gerbitz, this bonus chapter delivers actionable tactics for leaders, managers, and coaches. Apply decades of real-world experience to elevate teams of all sizes.
Parenting Guide: This essential 13-page resource, created by Mel and Harvard's Dr. Stuart Ablon (Director of Think:Kids at MGH), provides specific strategies for parents, grandparents, teachers, and coaches to build confidence and resilience in children.

See Mel Live at the Let Them Tour
Don't miss the chance to see Mel live for Let Them The Tour. New shows have been added but tickets are going fast.

International Editions
The Let Them Theory will be available from publishers in the following languages, formats, and dates. This table updated regularly:
Audio | eBook | ||
English - US | Hay House | Audible | Hay House |
English - UK | Hay House UK | Audible | Hay House UK |
Albanian | Albas | Albas | |
Arabic | Jarir | Jarir | Jarir |
Brazil | Record | Audible | Record |
Bulgaria (6/25) | Ozone | Ozone | |
Catalan (4/25) | Ara Libres | Ara Libres | Ara Libres |
Croatian (9/25) | VBZ | VBZ | VBZ |
Czech | Euromedia | Euromedia | |
Danish | Memoris | Memoris | Memoris |
Dutch | Kosmos | Kosmos | Kosmos |
Estonia (11/25) | Rahva Raamat | Rahva Raamat | Rahva Raamat |
Finnish | Gummeras | Gummeras | Gummeras |
French (4/25) | Leduc | Audible | Leduc |
Georgian | Palitra L | Palitra L | Palitra L |
German (5/25) | Goldmann | Audible | Goldmann |
Greek (5/25) | Dioptra | Dioptra | Dioptra |
Hebrew | Matar | Matar | Matar |
Hindi, Marathi, Tamil, Telugu, Gujarati, Bengali, Kannada, and Malayalam | Manjul | Manjul | Manjul |
Hungarian (9/25) | Good Life Books | Good Life Books | Good Life Books |
Icelandic | Bergmal | Bergmal | Bergmal |
Indonesian | PT Gramedia | PT Gramedia | |
Italian (5/25) | Newton Compton | Audible | Newton Compton |
Japanese | ASA Publishing | Audible | ASA Publishing |
Korean (9/25) | The Business Books and Co. | The Business Books and Co. | |
Latvian | Zvaigzne ABC | Zvaigzne ABC | Zvaigzne ABC |
Lithuanian (7/25) | Mijalba | Audioteka | Mijalba |
Macedonian (6/25) | Antalog | Antalog | |
Malay | Ace Premier | Ace Premier | Ace Premier |
Mongolian | TBD | TBD | TBD |
Norwegian | Aschehoug | Aschehoug | Aschehoug |
Polish (4/25) | Galaktyka | Galaktyka | Galaktyka |
Portuguese | Porto | Audible | Porto |
Romanian (4/25) | Editura Trei | Editura Trei | Editura Trei |
Russian | Sophia | Sophia | Sophia |
Serbian | TBD | TBD | TBD |
Simplified Chinese (8/25) | CITIC | CITIC | CITIC |
Slovakian | Citadella | Citadella | Citadella |
Slovenian (8/25) | Primus | Primus | |
Spanish Argentina (6/25) Brazil (7/25) Chile (5/25) Columbia (5/25) Mexico (5/25) Portugal (8/25) Peru (5/25) Uruguay (6/25) USA (6/25) | Cupula | Audible | Cupula |
Swedish | Your Life | Your Life | Your Life |
Taiwan | Ping's | Ping's | |
Thai | Amarin | Amarin | |
Turkey | Indigo | Indigo | |
Ukranian | Viviat | Viviat | Viviat |
Vietnamese | First News | First News | First News |